Sunday, March 22, 2009

The Power of ONE

One thing I have learned during my time teaching at KinderCare is the power each child has to influence the atmosphere of a class. You add or take away even just one student, and the entire class environment can change. It is really amazing to me. This has become especially apparent to me since one of my kids has stopped coming on Fridays. He is my hardest kid--constantly seeking negative attention, picking fights with other kids, and not responsive to anything I do, positive reinforcement included. Ever since his mom started working four 10 hour shifts Monday through Thursday, every Friday has been SO nice!! Everyone is more at ease, more laid-back, and has an easier time staying on task. I am always amazed at how much we get done, how peaceful our class feels, and how much easier everything is on Friday. And it's just because one kid isn't there. Each one of us really does have such tremendous power to influence those around us, for good or for bad.

5 comments:

Sassy Lu said...

Hey there! You don't know me, but I check out your cute blog from time to time. I went to school with Chad back in the day. Everytime I read your blog I'm amazed at your sweet perspective on life. You seem like such an amazing girl. It also looks like you will be moving out my way soon. Once you get to Georgia, if you ever want to make a trip to the beach, come and see us out in Savannah!

Caytee said...

It's true! For good or bad.

Shelley said...

Wow. That is so true. It's noticeable whether the influence is positive or negative. You have a gift of writing, Abbi. You inspire me.

Audra said...

Well, you have influenced everyone for GOOD!

PhilipsPhorum said...

As a sappy ex-social worker I just feel sorry for the naughty kid :) But I'm glad y'all get a break once a week--we ALL need that. Even my angelic-but-demanding baby makes me crave little breaks once in a while.